How often do we say, "I'm fine" when asked “How are you?” We know the answer: all the time. And we know why: It takes much too much effort and emotion at times to say how we really are. Sometimes the care, concerns, and challenges we deal with having a child(ren) with...
169: Supporting Neurodiverse Teens in Your Youth Ministry
169: Supporting Neurodiverse Teens in Your Youth Ministry
169: Supporting Neurodiverse Teens in Your Youth Ministry
169: Supporting Neurodiverse Teens in Your Youth Ministry
169: Supporting Neurodiverse Teens in Your Youth Ministry
In This Episode
- What “neurodiversity” means and why it’s increasingly common among today’s teens.
- Common challenges neurodiverse students face in church environments.
- Three ministry models for including and discipling neurodiverse teens.
- How to encourage students to find their identity in Christ rather than in a diagnosis.
- Practical next steps for youth pastors and leaders who want to support these families well.
Quotes
“Students with neurodiversity need a foundation of faith that teaches them they are made in the image of God and have value, worth, and purpose.”
“Their identity can be in Christ even over their identity as a neurodiverse person.”
“As youth ministry leaders, we can build support around students so they can be evangelized and discipled.”
What Is Neurodiversity?
Neurodiversity refers to the reality that people experience and interact with the world in many different ways. Diagnoses associated with neurodiversity include autism, ADHD, dyslexia, OCD, sensory processing disorders, traumatic brain injury, PTSD, and more. Recent studies show younger generations identify as neurodivergent at higher rates than previous ones, meaning most youth ministries are already serving neurodiverse students—even if they may not realize it. Because neurodiversity exists on a spectrum, the support needed will differ from student to student. Some may simply benefit from flexible expectations and visual schedules, while others may require more specialized support.Helping Teens Succeed at Church
Just as neurodiverse students may receive additional support at school, many will also need adjustments at church to hear, understand, and respond to the gospel message. Common challenges include:- Self-regulation or impulse control.
- Executive function and memory difficulties.
- Social communication and relationship-building struggles.
- Sensory sensitivity or sensory-seeking behaviors.
Models of Inclusion
1. Inclusive Youth Ministry Support
Students participate in the typical youth group environment with strategic accommodations. For example:- Offering a dyslexia-friendly Bible font.
- Avoiding calling on students to read aloud if that causes stress.
- Providing a predictable schedule and transitions.
2. Specialized Class
Designed for teens who need more structured or sensory-friendly environments, often using adapted curriculum such as:- Awe & Wonder
- Lifeway Access
- Ability Ministry Curriculum
3. Reverse Inclusion (RISE Model)
Neurotypical peers are invited into a class designed around the needs of neurodiverse teens—cultivating friendship, service, and discipleship together.Identity, Purpose, and the Gospel
The most important truth for every student: they are intentionally designed by God. Passages like Exodus 4:11, Psalm 139:14, and Ephesians 2:10 remind us that God knows each person’s needs and strengths—and has prepared good works for them to walk in. Teens with neurodiversity do not need to become someone different to be used by God. God meets them where they are and equips them fully.Resources Mentioned
- Key Ministry
- Awe & Wonder Curriculum
- Lifeway Access Curriculum
- Ability Ministry Curriculum
- Download: Ten Tips for Supporting Neurodiverse Teens in Your Student Ministry
About the Host
Sandra Peoples (M. Div, Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary) has been part of a special-needs family her entire life—she grew up with a sister with Down syndrome and has a son with level 3 autism. These relationships are the inspiration and motivation for her advocacy work. She is the author of three books, including new newest release, Accessible Church: A Gospel-Centered Vision for Including People with Disabilities and Their Families. Sandra is currently a PhD candidate at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary in the area of family ministry with an emphasis on inclusion for special needs families. She serves the Southern Baptists of Texas Convention as their disability ministry consultant, helping churches around the state start and strengthen their disability ministries. Sandra partnered with Lifeway Christian Resources to create the free download, Be All In: A Ministry Guide for Special Needs Inclusion in Children’s Ministry. She is also an adjunct professor in Liberty University’s School of Divinity, teaching classes in the area of disability ministry. And Sandra is a monthly cohost for Key Ministry: The Podcast, where she shares her perspective on family aspects of disability ministry and inclusion.Click to View Full Transcript
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