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Three Strategies to Self-Pity Proof Your Caregiving

Three Strategies to Self-Pity Proof Your Caregiving

As a writer, blogger and author, I’m well acquainted with the rigors, frustrations and chronic disappointment associated with creating content, getting published, and the awkward process of marketing one’s own material. I am also mom to an adult daughter with complex health and developmental needs. Like other writers and moms of children with disabilities, I’ve fallen prey to negative messages and self-pity. Inspired by Lori Stanley Roeleveld’s strategy, allow me to paraphrase a plan for protecting our hearts, minds and lives from debilitating patterns.

When Life Gets Really Crazy, I Dream About Our Vacation

When Life Gets Really Crazy, I Dream About Our Vacation

Sometimes our loved ones have to be our top priority. However, as my mom demonstrated, such is not always the case. Mom’s example is why I’m taking my husband’s words seriously.