Special Needs Siblings

Your Secret or Your Story?

Your Secret or Your Story?

The child was about 12 years old and weighed about that many pounds or a few more. As a young high school aged student, I didn’t know how to relate, respond, or inquire about my friends’ sibling that I was seeing—not meeting—for the first time. I’d known my friend for at least three years, and not once did my friend mention this sibling. It was my first introduction to someone having a family member with special needs.

Welcoming Siblings Home for the COVID Holidays

Welcoming Siblings Home for the COVID Holidays

As I sat down to share life with fellow special needs parents in this blog, it occurred to me that the best I might offer was a shared prayer for the upcoming holiday season. Perhaps you, too, are thinking out of the box about how to make the most of new and unexpected holiday dynamics. Together let’s pray, Lord, make our homes an instrument of Your peace.

Seven Ways to Lift the Exceptional Burden of Special Needs Families

Seven Ways to Lift the Exceptional Burden of Special Needs Families

Anger, guilt, anxiety, loneliness, stress and exhaustion. Pick a feeling and a special needs caregiver has experienced it, and not occasionally or seasonally, but often daily. We could all use a helping hand from a friend or a stranger or a church parishioner, someone who gives us a tiny boost of hope when we need it the most, but special needs caregivers are in an exceptional category. Here are seven tangible ways you might consider lifting their exceptional burden just a bit.

The Impacts of Special Needs on Siblings

The Impacts of Special Needs on Siblings

Those of us that are the parents of a child with special needs so often put so much of our time, energy and focus into helping that child or young person to thrive and develop as fully as possible. But for many of us, our child with special needs or disability is not our only child.

How Winnie the Pooh Can Help Answer Children's Questions About Special Needs

How Winnie the Pooh Can Help Answer Children's Questions About Special Needs

A question I get asked loads of times is this; “How can I explain special needs to children?” One suggestion I give to people trying to explain this to children is to gather them all together. Ask them what is different about each of them, compared to the rest of the group. It can also be helpful to think about popular children’s characters and discuss the differences between them. The characters in the A.A. Milne Winnie the Pooh stories offer a great example for younger children.