Spiritual Growth

Ten Reasons Why "As Long as the Baby is Healthy" Isn't Most Important

Ten Reasons Why "As Long as the Baby is Healthy" Isn't Most Important

Pregnancy goes hand in hand with this common saying. However, after having a child with special needs, we changed our response. Here’s what we’ve learned why that common saying isn’t most important thing in pregnancy.

The Red Sea or the Still Small Voice?

The Red Sea or the Still Small Voice?

Everyone wants the Red Sea moments, an unmistakable miracle. But God doesn’t do only big signs and wonders. He is in the small things too. Whenever I find myself in a challenging situation, I look for God. I live in the mindset that God is around me and wanting to reveal Himself to me.

How to Know if You Need a Marriage Mentor or Marriage Counselor

How to Know if You Need a Marriage Mentor or Marriage Counselor

Some marriages have moments of disappointment, some have challenges that are discouraging, and some might even be in dangerous and dysfunctional situations that can be devastating. whether you have a loved one with special needs or not, all marriages may show tire marks on the road that give us cause to stop and see what is needed to make the relationship better. Here are lists to help determine if you need marriage mentoring or counseling, and what each can accomplish.

Soaking Up a Golden Moment of Joy

Soaking Up a Golden Moment of Joy

I am exhausted, moody, yet eager to soak in what could be the last nice day of autumn. I hear Joel’s footsteps quicken and turn to see him approaching at a near-run. He grabs my hand, looks me in the eye, grins, and pulls me forward. I wait for him to drop my hand, as he always does, but instead he squeezes it and swings my arm, his grin widening at my delight. For a moment, it feels so right, his hand a perfect fit in mine.

Seven Ways to Lift the Exceptional Burden of Special Needs Families

Seven Ways to Lift the Exceptional Burden of Special Needs Families

Anger, guilt, anxiety, loneliness, stress and exhaustion. Pick a feeling and a special needs caregiver has experienced it, and not occasionally or seasonally, but often daily. We could all use a helping hand from a friend or a stranger or a church parishioner, someone who gives us a tiny boost of hope when we need it the most, but special needs caregivers are in an exceptional category. Here are seven tangible ways you might consider lifting their exceptional burden just a bit.