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When the Grief of Disability Caregiving Threatens to Break You

When the Grief of Disability Caregiving Threatens to Break You

When the grief of caregiving pushes you to your breaking point, what can you do? Jolene Philo shares how she is learning to focus on today.

The Challenge of Caregiving for Those with Hidden Disabilities

The Challenge of Caregiving for Those with Hidden Disabilities

I don’t see anything wrong with that child.” Give it 10 minutes; give it an hour. Take time to be with “that child” or “that adult,” and then you will be able to discern what makes them different, where they excel, and where they need additional help.

The Beauty of Disability

The Beauty of Disability

My pastor was introducing a new sermon series about beauty when four words took up residence in my mind: the beauty of disability. If we believe that all people are created in the image of God, that includes those with disabilities. Therefore, I believe in the beauty of disability.

How Can I Make You Feel Safe?

How Can I Make You Feel Safe?

Our job as caregivers, whatever the age of those in our care, is to make them feel safe. Which is why we should ask the same question every day–How can I make you feel safe?–and observe the words and behaviors of our loved ones, so we can create the secure environment they need.

The Power of an Open Window

The Power of an Open Window

For years, my elderly mother insisted on having her window shades shut. Recently, we had her window shades open, and the improvement in her mood, and even her overall health, has been phenomenal. Here are some tips on how to harness the power of an open window for caregiving families.